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The Hurt Room is an on premises lifestyle club for Couples, we allow Single Women, however Single Men are not permitted .No annual membership is required at the moment , Couples simply pay at the Door and let the fun begin!!

The Hurt Room is a Private Club/Dungeon, we are located on the outskirts of Little Italy in Chicago IL. We offer a free private parking lot and we are located in a very discreet building seconds away from the I-90 expressway.The entry fee at the door is $70.00 per couple and $30 for Single Ladies,Single Men are not permitted. B.Y.O.B is permitted we offer cups of ice and juice.

We offer over 2500 square feet of Kinky Play Space with everything that you need to make your visit a night to remember!!! Our four Chambers include a Medical Room, Classroom, BDSM Corporal Punishment Room and a Bedroom these all an be seen in our Chambers link. We also have a bathroom that includes a shower and fresh towels, shampoo and body wash .

RSVP at thehurtroom@gmail.com to get info about our next event and we hope to see you soon!

Privacy: Who you see at The Hurt Room and what happens is to be kept private, if we find out you are sharing info about other group members you will be banned!

Play Nice: The lifestyle can raise certain, valid insecurities,uncertainties and fears. You’re not always going to find people that share the exact same views that you do. Always try to be aware of other people’s comfort levels, especially your partner. In a group party situation, a friendly “hello” can work wonders to ease someone’s discomfort, and if you find that your interests are in different directions, or any attractions aren’t mutual, remember to remain polite, as you would certainly wish to be treated. When meeting a potential swing partner one-on-one (or two-on-two,or two-on-one as the case may be) the same applies: be polite, even if you don’t think there’s any potential for intimacy, you could still have a great time anyways. Keep an open mind.

Be Yourself: People are interested in YOU, so relax and be yourself. People want to get to know the real you. Additionally, even if you have no interest in swinging with someone in particular, remember to always be polite. You may have other things in common and develop quite a friendship despite your initial reaction. In swinging, as in the rest of life, our relationships can change with people over time, and through them you might meet someone with whom you wish to be intimate.

*Don’t Be Weird: *Remember, “no” means “no”. Anyone has the right to refuse your advances as you have the right to refuse theirs. Don’t expect or ask for any explanation, in this lifestyle an initial “no” will seldom change to “yes” no matter how much persuasion you apply. Not everyone will match perfectly and an improperly handled situation can result in hurt feelings.If there’s someone that you would like to swing with, let them know in a friendly manner and accept their response — whatever it may be. If they change their mind, they’ll let you know.

Safe Sex: Practicing safe sex is, of course, a person’s choice. But it’s a very important choice — this is the 21st Century after all. Anyone’s decision to use condoms should be politely accepted. The Hurt Room provides condoms at no charge and they are prominently displayed in every room in the club. Anyone not willing to accept this decision is acting irresponsibly and disrespectfully. If someone’s willing to be intimate with you, you owe them the simple courtesy of respecting their comfort level.

Club Rules:
No Means no!
No cell phones allowed in play areas
Do not over indulge in Alcohol
Who you are see, What happens , Stays at the Club
Discuss your rules as a Couple prior to arriving
Leave the drama at the door
Good Hygiene is a must
The most important person at the club is the person you came with.
We have a much better chance resolving a problem you may encounter when it’s heppening . Not the next day when everything is siad and done.